A crochet jumper to make her feel beautiful or this lovely bracelet. From $40.

A gripping short story collection you can read together — like Brawler by Lauren Groff ($27, to arrive 2/24); I missed Freddie so much last night because I wanted to discuss it with him! — or a bookstore date to browse together.

A ribbed beanie or pink socks to keep him cozy. From $7.50.

A heart-shaped favorite photo of the two of you, $65.

A 30-minute shoulder rub while watching their favorite show, priceless. (Extra points if you put her hair in a braid, then undo it, and repeat over and over and over.)

Plus, a charm of that favorite show, $28. 😉

A bouquet of fresh flowers, from $60. Or a bunch of a single kind from your neighborhood bodega; they’re always beautiful.

A cheese board for two, mouse chocolates, or the most delicious ice cream flavor that Toby and I just discovered. From $12.

The world’s best earplugs because you know what’s romantic? Sleeping! Reading a book! Not hearing your kids! $25.

A new tradition to start together. Here are a few ideas from CoJ readers:
“Every year, my husband and I watch the Oscar-nominated animated shorts. It’s fun to talk about our favorites and then we root for them when we watch the Oscars.” — Meg
“I make hot pot every Valentine’s Day! I used to live in China, and the smell really brings me back, plus our kids think it’s the coolest thing ever.” — Sara
“I make homemade Valentine’s cards for my husband based on whatever TV show we’re watching. So far, he’s gotten Seinfeld and Succession cards. This year, it’s The Sopranos, and I’m sooo excited for the possibilities. Puns are always appreciated.” — Annie
“My partner and I never really enjoyed Valentine’s Day, so we now invite our friends’ kids over and encourage our friends to go out. It’s one of my favorite days.” — Anne-Marie
“My mom always made a special dinner with chocolate dessert for us all to eat by candlelight. It always felt lovely, and I’ve replicated the tradition with my own family.” — Stacy

Whipped briefs (gahhhh) or pretty pink ones. From $10.

A special dinner at a magical restaurant, just the two of you.

A love note, $7, and a kiss.

What do you like to get (or give) for Valentine’s Day? I’d love to give my close friends my favorite shower product as a little treat. Xoxo

P.S. Our Valentine’s Day gift guide last year, and my #1 dating rule.

(Photo of cat on sofa by Tarik Kizilkaya/Stocksy.)

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